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Well, was blog hopping around and realised that many people are like, posting things saying they do not want seniors to graduate, they wan things to stay as it is, bu she de etc

But well, as we ALL know, such things never happens. We can moan and cry when they leave us. Its only natural for them to feel so. Sometimes thinking back the times we had with them, the guidance they gave us etc. Its inevitable for people to feel like this. Even I feel this way. But STILL, we'd have to learn to let go.

A word to the juniors[may not apply to all], the seniors arent always there for you. Theres eventually one day where they'll step down. And YOU will be the ones taking over. Think about it, have you been unleashing your true potential? Do you think you're able to take over wads awaiting you? Or are you simply running away from it, hiding behind your seniors all the while?

You people are more than what you are now. Its just many of you lacks the courage, the confidence, the mindset to make a breakthrough. And such breakthrough doesnt fall from the sky, you'll have to put in the effort to achieve it. Rather than focusing on what you will fail, why not put more attention and focus on what you want to achieve. Rather than focusing on "Omg, wad if this goes wrong, that goes wrong?", try to focus MORE on "This will be a great success." It works pretty well with the confidence things you see. As stated in my MSN display name, theres a difference between WANT and WILL. Want is a desire, its something that people wished and longed for. However, when you use the word WANT, you're implying that that particular THING is something that could be omitted from your life, and therefore, is of less significance is your life. Whereas if you use the word WILL, it shows the amount of determination you have to strive for wadeva it is.

Ok, i may sound dumb but im trying to say that, its all in your mind. What you can do, what you cant do. Its all in your mind. In every human, theres just this psychological barrier behind each thing you dont do. Lets take a hot kettle for example, when you're young, your parents told you that the hot kettle will burn your hand if you touch it, or even, you've tried it yourself. When you grow up, u no longer stupidly touch a hot kettle anymore. Reason being? Your brain is telling you "hey that stuff is hot. you touch it and your hand would be hurt", hand it kinda like, protects you, serves like a barrier. However, as humans grows, they tend to have such psychological barrier EVEN BEFORE they engage in the activity. Therefore belittling of your own capabilities. Its ALL IN YOUR MIND. Tell yourself you can do it, and im sure you can. Sometimes people need to stop decieving yourself, think of what you can do, and do not think of what you cant do.




Right, its like ,3am in the morning, im not even sure if im making sense. Correct me if i made any mistakes in the above statements.


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