OKKKKK im suddenly motivated to blog.

I've been thinking that sometimes, we should live life the way we feel like it. Of course, to a legal extent. WELL YES~ I wouldnt deny that i've broken some small law here and there. =X. But well, my concept is "Everything is legal until to you get caught.". Yeah maybe not a politically correct thinking but well, its true. Often a time, people do something undesirable and get away with it. But there are also people who got caught on their first attempt. Well all i can to such people is SUAY.

Social management is important in our everyday live. And the way you lead ur life is gonna affect your entire social circle, as well as your social management. I often live my life in my own philosophy and thinking. Thus i often reflect on my life. Wad is going wrong here, wad is going wrong there. Is it mistakes at my part, or mistakes at others part? They are things that u can change, but there things u cant. So why not start from things you can change? Before you can change anything, change yourself. Its something easier said than done. I may have understood the importance changing myself, but i've tried many ways to alter my bad points. Sometimes it works, sometimes it dont. But they usually will if you spend enough time on it. To date, im still working on myself as well. Its hard, really hard.

You can never expect the whole world to like you. But at least make an effort to not let people despise you. If you really made an effort to change yourself, and you're still not receiving positive attitudes from certain people around you. Then seek the problem and solve them. And by solving, i dont mean direct confrontation, this is just gonna worsen the entire situation. Sometimes you'd be surprised how can courtesy neutralize the negative feelings between two. Sometimes we have to learn to take a step back. And everything will be fine. Den again, to a reasonable extent. All humans have this ego in them. Taking a step back is JUST SO HARD to do. It applies to me as well. But through past experiences, sometimes if it brings greater good and it doesnt hurt you much, it doesnt matter if you just "lugi" abit. In Jack Neo's movie "HomeRun", he mentioned something about being taken advantage of. The scene where they were having negotiations on shoes for homework. In life there are many situations whereby we have to make a step back regardless of how unfair it it to ourselves. The world just works like that, that is if what you pursue is a happy ending. Cos IMO, everyone happy in the expense of lugi ABIT, its a great bargain isnt it? =D

Right back to my personal life principles. Like i said, we deserve to lead our life the way we like. And rules are there as a guideline. Not essentially something for us to follow blindly. In life, there are things that can be flexible, and some that cant. But it goes back to "Everything is legal until you get caught". And flexibility is definitely part of social management. It is necessary to possess a skill to interchange attitudes on different things within an instant, in different scenarios. I believe some things are not required to be presented at casual instances. However, in formal circumstances, it is necessary to display politically correct attitude. This is not a matter of being hypocritical anymore. Its a skill of social survival. Like seriously, if you wanna be politically correct in everything you do in your life, prepare to eat shit and die. The truth is cruel, thats how the society works. You have the skills, you have the substance, but if you dun have the network or relation, you're just like an underground talent -- your talents are simply useless. And in such circumstance, you can just eat shit and die already.

Im not really good in social management as well. I only learnt such things from trial and errors of my life and also through observations of my surroundings. I have to say, all the above are things that are derived from my experiences and observations. And well you see, my perspective can be a little weird and there at times. XD

I shall sign off for now. My eyes giving problems. Damn itchy and is constantly semi open. Well CIAOSSU